Connectedness and Separation – Pt.3 – For and Against

In Connectedness and Separation – Pt.2 – Individual Achievement vs Collective Movement, I wrote about how my life review during the NDE, taught me that I was living a life of individual achievement, where I should have been living a life with collective movement in mind. I also wrote about how our modern world is setup for individual achievement and how it supports the creation of the “illusion of separation” from each other and the source. Next I’ll show you what I was taught about the “for” and “against” directional forces and how they relate to “open” and “closed” states of being.

For and Against Directional Forces

In The Nature of Reality – Pt.2 – Perception, I outlined a formula that was shown to me during the NDE that represented how our daily inputs are responsible for both consciously and unconsciously defining our perception. Our defined perception gives us access to the associated version of reality that we get to enjoy. The inputs we ingest with our five senses daily are applied to us through movement, direction, creating vocalization internally and externally, quantity, addition or accumulation, and time. These variables create a directional force in time defining our perception. It’s all connected.

The Force “For”

The forces for and against are closely related to positivity and negativity, but more nuanced. I’ll use the following examples:

  • I am “for” compassion.

The statement above explains that I have chosen a direction. The direction is: “for…compassion”. If compassion had a direction in time, a motion heading left to right, then “for” would be in alignment, because “for” does not oppose compassion. “For” is “with” compassion, in agreement, open, without opposition, thereby aligning, free from blockage. “For”, allows for an open state of being.

  • compassion ————>
  • “for” —————–>

The Force “Against”

The force against, creates a secondary force that is in opposition to the original force. In the statement below, the force “against” is creating a blockage or a “closed state” to compassion. We as individuals, are creating the secondary force. We, are creating the blockage. We, are creating the closed state of being. We are using our spiritual and mental energy to do so.

  • I am “against” compassion.

In the examples above, I used “for” and “against” as forces related to the idea of compassion. The key to understanding “for” and “against”, is to understand that they are forces within themselves. They do not need to be “for” and “against” a particular item or idea, as in “compassion”. Both “for” and “against” are accumulated and stacked forces that define perception.


  • “against” = creating a secondary force that is in opposition, creating a closed state of being
  • “for” = aligning with the existing force, no secondary force created, an open state of being

Opinions and Understanding, For and Against

Every human has opinions. Our modern world is built to support the illusion of separation and opinions are the foundation of that illusion. Most of the opinions we have as humans are based on the force “against“, “picking a side”. They ignore the fact that we are all connected. For example: my opinion is “against” yours – it is better than yours, more right than yours, louder, prouder, more virtuous, etc., in opposition to your opinion.


Understanding, is what saves our energy from the force “against”. Understanding saves us because it allows us to be “forunderstanding. It allows us to retain the knowledge that we are all connected, and choose understanding, instead of using our energy to create an opposing force “against”. “I’m going to be for understanding your opinion.” I may not agree to your sentiment, but I am not “against” or in opposition to it. I am “for” understanding because we are connected light beings and we are both here to learn from every experience.

For and Against Accumulation

Imagine a week where we take our focus and point it towards monitoring our daily inputs, we support connectedness as opposed to separation, and we were “for” more than we were “against”. What version of reality would our perceptions start to access?


How many subconscious items do we carry every day in the form of “against” energy and blockages. How many of our days do we spend “against” differing political views, religions, sports teams, neighbors, coworkers, people who take our parking spots, people doing things in other parts of the world etc. The force “against”, and our daily inputs are forcing us to walk around in an energy depleted and closed state of being. “Against”, contributes to the illusion of separation. “Against” will even affect your health.


The Takeaway

“For” and “Against” are both forces that contribute to the definition of our perception. To be “Against” takes mental, spiritual, and sometimes physical energy. To be “Against” is to be in a closed state of being. To be “Against” is to fall under the illusion of separation. To be “for” is to be open and to use our energy wisely. To be “for” is to recognize connectedness with each other and the all. To be “for” is to seek more connectedness and to be “for” spreading the love. You are far more powerful than you’ve been told. It’s all “for” you.

In Connectedness and Separation – Pt.4, Open and Closed States, I will show you how “open” and “closed” states of being help us to develop clairvoyance, affect our health, facilitate connectedness, and provide an increase in meditation effectiveness and source communication.